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AN ANTIDOTE TO CHAOS-Rule 4

Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today.

When you have something to say, silence is a lie – and tyranny feeds on lies.

Be cautious when you’re comparing yourself to others. You’re a singular being, once you’re an adult, you have your own particular, specific problems-financial, intimate, psychological, and otherwise. Those are embedded in the unique broader context of your existence. Your career or job works for you in personal manner, or it does not, and it does so in a unique interplay with the other specifics of your life. You must decide how much of your time to spend on this, and how much on that. You must decide what to let go, and what to pursue.

What you aim at determines what you see.

Pay attention. Focus on your surroundings, physical and psychological. Notice something that bothers you, that concerns you, that will not let you be, which you could fix, that you would fix. You can find such somethings by asking yourselves these three questions: “what is it that is bothering me?” “Is it something I could fix?” and “Would I be actually willing to fix it?”If the answer is NO, to any of the questions, then look elsewhere. Aim lower. Search until you find something that bothers you, that you could fix, that you would fix, and then fix it. That might be enough for the day.

Realization is dawning. Instead of playing tyrant, therefore you are paying attention. You are telling he truth, instead of manipulating the world. You are negotiating, instead of playing the martyr or the tyrant. You no longer have to be envious, because you no longer know that someone else truly has it better. You no longer have to be frustrated, because you have learned to aim low, and to be patient. You are discovering who you are, and what you want, and what you are willing to do. You are finding that the solutions to your problems have to be tailored to you, personally and precisely. You are less concerned with the actions of other people, because you have plenty to do yourself.

Attend to the day but aim at the highest good.

predisposedmake someone liable or inclined to a specified attitude, action, or condition. Eg.”lack of exercise may predispose an individual to high blood pressure”
riggedassemble and adjust (the equipment of a sailing boat, aircraft, etc.) in readiness for operation.
endeavourstry hard to do or achieve something.
credoa statement of the beliefs or aims which guide someone’s actions.
impeccablein accordance with the highest standards; faultless.
irredeemablyincapable of being bought back or paid off
mittsa padded glove for handling dishes in or from a hot oven.
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corralgather together and confine (a group of people or things).
femme fatalean attractive and seductive woman, especially one who will ultimately cause distress to a man who becomes involved with her.
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revelatoryrevealing something hitherto unknown.
fleetinglasting for a very short time.
punitiveinflicting or intended as punishment.
visual cortexthe part of the cerebral cortex that receives and processes sensory nerve impulses from the eyes.
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feintedmake a deceptive or distracting movement, especially during a fight.
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idiosyncraticrelating to idiosyncrasy[a distinctive or peculiar feature or characteristic of a place or thing.]; peculiar or individual.
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aphorismsa pithy observation which contains a general truth.eg. “the old aphorism ‘the child is father to the man’”
empiricalbased on, concerned with, or verifiable by observation or experience rather than theory or pure logic.
obliterateddestroy utterly; wipe out.
engenderedcause or give rise to (a feeling, situation, or condition).
Words from Rule 4

Happy Reading !!!

2 Comments »

    • Yes he has used many stories as examples that make it interesting to read…🤗 I loved the part of Adam eve that I have shared but there are many more psycological stories that make sense…I hope you love it when you read and also the difficult words shared help you read easily🤞

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